tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post8485927136016443118..comments2023-08-24T08:55:39.825-04:00Comments on Debora Dennis - Scribbling Through Time: Memories can't be stolenAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10672949308143820348noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post-41486962748989770872012-07-22T05:01:41.036-04:002012-07-22T05:01:41.036-04:00Deborah,
I'm so sorry that that happened to yo...Deborah,<br />I'm so sorry that that happened to you. I'm also glad no one was hurt. i know that it feels like the police are taking your crime lightly and you may need to just remind them GENTLY that you are also a victim of a crime. although no one was hurt your home was still entered and robbed. the fact that your children let her in is not the point, the fact that she committed the crime is. ask that they please treat you with the respect that any victim deserves and to keep you informed. also ask them if you will be allowed to have your jewelery back once it is recovered. it may be considered evidence now and be kept by them. <br />if they start to be rude to you remind them again that your the victim in this crime not the perpetrator and that you are experiencing all of the same emotions that any parent would whose children could have been hurt in a home robbery situation. if it continues then ask to speak to their supervisor and ask for your case to be transferred to someone new. sometimes the policeman has so many cases and works so hard that they get jaded and forget the human emotional equation of the victim.<br /><br />stand up for yourself/your children and your rights.<br /><br />i hope you recover everything she took from you,especially your peace of mind. <br />God Bless.<br /><br />Tammy ramey<br />trvlagnt1t@yahoo.comwyndwhisperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04720377867271773798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post-45818102000525733802012-07-21T11:22:30.396-04:002012-07-21T11:22:30.396-04:00Deb, I'm so sorry about your horrible experien...Deb, I'm so sorry about your horrible experience and your loss. With all the home invasions going on these days, this is something that always looms in my mind. I can imagine the feeling of having your home, the place that is supposed to be a safe haven from the world, violated like that. And by someone you know. You're right. Memories can never be stolen and they're yours to play again and again in your mind. Hoping you will move on and heal from this.Christina Lorenzenhttp://www.christinalorenzen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post-70830156352792452892012-07-21T11:00:46.488-04:002012-07-21T11:00:46.488-04:00Debora, I'm so sorry this happened to you, but...Debora, I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I know exactly how you feel. Our house was robbed and we lost some jewelry. We don't have expensive jewelry, but my husband's class ring was one of the things taken. My late father's banjo and case also were taken. Fortunately, a neighbor came home and the thieves left. Later, although it didn't help, I learned who had stolen our things. She was a woman who worked in the next office along with her boyfriend. Eventually she was fired, I know she got next to nothing for my father's banjo and the sentimental items I had put in the case with it. As you said, she couldm't steal my memories, but I still feel the loss and betrayal years later.Caroline Clemmonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14914658854159456335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post-61101863553314481112012-07-20T17:14:39.504-04:002012-07-20T17:14:39.504-04:00Thanks ladies. Nothing has been recovered yet - bu...Thanks ladies. Nothing has been recovered yet - but you never know. :) If those pieces were meant to be with me, one day they may find their way home.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10672949308143820348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post-47630020955437366262012-07-20T15:31:00.013-04:002012-07-20T15:31:00.013-04:00SO you didn't get anything back?! Is there any...SO you didn't get anything back?! Is there any way you can approach her parents?Chelle Sandellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03813658527826989105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9184289517226258465.post-35734651674673723932012-07-20T11:08:09.352-04:002012-07-20T11:08:09.352-04:00How horrible for someone to do this, especially wh...How horrible for someone to do this, especially when they were a guest in your home! But, you're right...memories can't be stolen. And it could have been worse. <br /><br />Still, I feel for you in the loss of that ring!Mae Clairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12793475400166450815noreply@blogger.com